While I understand where Omotayo is coming from, I don't think breaking up is the best option though.
I think the best option is for him to be honest with her, tell her exactly what's wrong and how it affects their relationship, then let them discuss what to do moving forward.
The fear of telling Rahama that kind of illness might hold him down, and the fact that he feels it makes him "useless", thanks to his father might also restrict him. He won't want to present himself that way to her.
That's not how trauma works though. He would interpret everything everyone says about his phobia in his father's voice. Because should have been the most significant voice in his life.
When the voice that was meant to protect you is the very one that breaks you....that's a very deep wound that is difficult to heal from or even mask.
Isn't that like the safest option right now? 😭😭😭
I'm sorry 🥹🥹
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We should consider Tayo too nau, he's experiencing panic attacks. 😭
I know you feel bad for Rahama, but this whole relationship is clearly bad for Tayo’s health as well.
At this point, a breakup feels like the safest option.
first here today! Thank you Abimbola for this story.
I look forward to Rahama and Tayo’s story unraveling beautifully. 🤭❤️
Lowkey want to save this read as a reward for all the work I have to do today. We’ll see🥹😂
Thank you, Kachi 🤍
Oya save it, and let it be both your reward and your motivation to do the work 😄
Woe betide omotayo for real. Why play with someone's feelings like that. I get it's hard for him but haba
Very unserious man
While I understand where Omotayo is coming from, I don't think breaking up is the best option though.
I think the best option is for him to be honest with her, tell her exactly what's wrong and how it affects their relationship, then let them discuss what to do moving forward.
The fear of telling Rahama that kind of illness might hold him down, and the fact that he feels it makes him "useless", thanks to his father might also restrict him. He won't want to present himself that way to her.
True, true, I get that part.
But I still think he should give her more, what's the word now, I'm not sure.
Basically he should trust her more, trust that telling her won't make her see him in that negative light.
That's not how trauma works though. He would interpret everything everyone says about his phobia in his father's voice. Because should have been the most significant voice in his life.
When the voice that was meant to protect you is the very one that breaks you....that's a very deep wound that is difficult to heal from or even mask.
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Lola is really nice o, she was not at all what I was expecting. She really cares about Enny and it shows in how she treats Rahama. Love eettt
Yes, she is 🥰
Ifunanya consider Tobechukwu nauu
Abi oh 😅😅
Ahhh 😭, my chest is paining me🥲
I hope we get two chapters today too as usual abeg 🥹
Ahh, I'm not sure 🥺🥺
I love you too much to make your chest ache 😣
Seriously I shouldn't have start this story
Cause why am I praying Thursday should come faster than ever
I can't wait for the rest of the storyyyyyyy😭😭
I should have allowed it to end first 😭
Ion blame omotayo tho🤷♀️
I'm sorry, Sarah 🤗🤗
The Chapters would end in the next two weeks, don't worry, Ẹ má bínú sí mi 🥰
And thank you for not blaming Omotayo ☺️
The only thing going through my mind is how wicked Omotayo is😭😭😭
Omotayo whyyyyyy??!!!😭😭
Poor Rahama🙃
Wahhhhhhhh 😭
Hi I just wanted to let you know how much I love this story. I'm really looking forward to the next updates.
Thank you 💕
Thank you, Neemah 🤗🥰
And he still didn't tell her 🤦♀️
Noooooooooooooo!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Omotayo, whyyyyyyyyyyyyyy? 😭😭😭
I think I can feel pain in my chest, Ohhhhh Chimmmm! 😭
I’m sorry on his behalf 🙏🙏
Haew all this trouble😔